How
do you cultivate Surety in your life?
Try carefully culturing these three habits:- Integrity, Clarity, and Generosity.
IntegRITY
People with Integrity keep nothing hidden and everything in a state of balance. Know yourself inside out and reject nothing, including those situations where you know from past experience you sold out on one or more of your values and could not be trusted. What was of more value to you than your principles then? It could well happen again. This will test your commitment to self-honesty!!!
Value your faults and virtues alike. People instinctively get toey around you when you hedge, and spin, avoid and deflect. There's something reassuring about someone who transparently walks their talk, openly and gratefully lives their choices and keeps their commitments. Those rare beings stand out from the scrum, not because of anything they do, but because of what they are.
People with Integrity keep nothing hidden and everything in a state of balance. Know yourself inside out and reject nothing, including those situations where you know from past experience you sold out on one or more of your values and could not be trusted. What was of more value to you than your principles then? It could well happen again. This will test your commitment to self-honesty!!!
Value your faults and virtues alike. People instinctively get toey around you when you hedge, and spin, avoid and deflect. There's something reassuring about someone who transparently walks their talk, openly and gratefully lives their choices and keeps their commitments. Those rare beings stand out from the scrum, not because of anything they do, but because of what they are.
ClaRITY
People trust those who provide a clear, uncluttered view of themselves, of where they want to go, and why. We value relevant instruction and good information. Become a person with no agendas hidden.
GenerosITY
People will trust you when they “feel” your Kindness; when they feel that you see them as one of your kind – one of your mob. You do that by favouring your self, and them, with your kindest intentions. Unreserved.
People trust those who provide a clear, uncluttered view of themselves, of where they want to go, and why. We value relevant instruction and good information. Become a person with no agendas hidden.
GenerosITY
People will trust you when they “feel” your Kindness; when they feel that you see them as one of your kind – one of your mob. You do that by favouring your self, and them, with your kindest intentions. Unreserved.
With
Integrity, we can trust your “character” and your “word.”
With
Clarity, we can trust your “intelligence.”
With
Generosity, we trust your “heart.”
[How Can I Be Sure? – Daryl Braithwaite (A) – 3:34]
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