You're in for disappointment.
No-one was put on this earth to do it all for you.
No-one.
(That's why we weren't just paired up on our own desert island paradise)
Make a list of people you relate with in a significant way.
What do you want from each one? (Be honest.)
If you're not getting what you want from a particular person (yes, that one!) --
- Are you trading off what you want for something else that is also of value to you?
- Are your expectations of what you want closing you off from gifts in disguise?
- How are your Receiving skills? Are they evenly balanced alongside your Giving?
- How are your Giving skills? Do people feel uncomfortable when you give them something?
- Do you feel comfortably deserving of what you want?
- Are you seeking it from the wrong person?
One purpose of relationship is to learn.
Be prepared to pay for the tuition,
Rather than pay a later penalty for naivety and ignorance.
Never invest more into a relationship
Than you're prepared to happily pay
As the price for the experience.
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